In a world where gender-based violence is still a problem, how we treat women continues to be a reflection of our societal values. The International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women reminds us that this violence does not exist in isolation as it is rooted in harmful attitudes and behaviors that devalue women. Whether it is in the workplace, at home, or in public spaces, how women are treated shapes their safety, opportunities, and sense of dignity.
By rethinking how we interact with and treat women we can lay the foundation for a more just and equitable society. In this article, we will explore how women should be treated versus how they should not be treated, offering a vision for a future where positive actions replace harmful ones.
How a Woman Should Be Treated vs. How a Woman Should Not Be Treated
A woman should be treated with:
- Respect: Every woman deserves to be treated with dignity and respect, regardless of her background, appearance, or circumstances.
- Equality: Women should have equal opportunities and rights as men in all aspects of life, including education, employment, and political participation.
- Compassion: Women should be treated with empathy and understanding, especially during difficult times.
- Support: Women should have access to the support and resources they need to thrive, including healthcare, education, and economic opportunities.
- Protection: Women should be protected from all forms of violence, including domestic violence, sexual assault, and harassment.
- Choice: Women should have the freedom to make their own choices about their bodies, relationships, and lives.
- Empowerment: Women should be encouraged and supported to reach their full potential and achieve their goals.
A woman should not be treated with:
- Discrimination: Women should not be discriminated against based on their gender, race, ethnicity, religion, or any other characteristic.
- Violence: Women should never be subjected to any form of violence, whether physical, emotional, or psychological.
- Objectification: Women should not be treated as objects or sexual symbols.
- Stereotyping: Women should not be judged based on stereotypes or preconceived notions.
- Neglect: Women should not be neglected or ignored, especially when they need help or support.
- Control: Women should not be controlled or manipulated by others.
- Blame: Women should not be blamed for the actions of others.
Specific examples of how women should and should not be treated
- In the workplace: Women should be paid equally to men for the same work. They should not be subjected to sexual harassment or discrimination.
- In relationships: Women should have the right to consent to sexual activity. They should not be pressured or coerced into doing anything they do not want to do.
- In public spaces: Women should feel safe walking alone in the daytime or at night. They should not be catcalled or harassed.
- In the legal system: Women should have equal access to justice. They should not be denied their rights or treated unfairly.
- In the home: Women should not be subjected to domestic violence, expected to do all the housework at the detriment of their health and should not be denied access to education or employment.
- In education: Women should have equal access to education at all levels. Be encouraged to pursue careers in traditionally male-dominated fields. Women should not be denied scholarships or other opportunities based on their gender.
- In healthcare: Women should have access to quality healthcare, including reproductive health services. They should be informed about their health options and should not be pressured to make decisions about their bodies that they do not want to make.
- In politics: Women should be represented in government at all levels, and be treated with respect by political opponents. They should not be denied opportunities to participate in political decision-making.
Creating a world free from violence against women starts with how we choose to treat them every day. By confronting harmful behaviors and fostering a culture where women are valued and empowered, we move closer to achieving true justice and equity for all. Change begins with each of us, and together, we can build a safer, more inclusive world where every human can thrive.